Sunday, May 24, 2009

Tate

Less than 24 hours from now I will be holding my Tate...
I am unsure of the time the babies are scheduled to arrive in Nanchang, but I do know Tate has a 4 hour drive to get to Nanchang.
I do know that we leave Beijing at 11:30 am on Monday.... two hour flight to Nanchang arriving about 1:30pm.... I believe it takes about 30 minutes from the airport to Jiangxi Hotel.
In my secret dream of dreams (quoting Tiffany), the babies should be waiting for us to arrive..... I am packing the suitcases with this in mind.
I will post at least a picture as soon as I can. Blogger is not working here in Beijing but hoping it is available in Jiangxi.

LOST AND FOUND




What a surreal experience it was in the Forgotten City. Sprawling acres of buildings with me totally melting in the vast shadelessness of a beautiful sunny humid day. At the exit of the Forbidden City, I spied this poster. I stepped to the side of the group to snap the picture, turned around and the group had disappeared. All I could see was a ocean of black hair. I started scanning to locate the blue flag of our guide. Blue must be a popular guide flag color... too many to chose from. So there I stood in the middle of a bridge over the mote at the exit of The Forbidden City.... LOST IN CHINA. I paced back and forth hoping that someone from the group would miss me. When you are standing in the middle of China, alone, you start to wonder what a person just might do IF lost in China! Luckily, my brother (part of the travel posse with me) missed me coming back to find me!

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Day two Touring Forgotten City, Tiannmen, Olympic Venue, Summer Palace....

I have such a mommie brain.,... soooo tired and dealing with the jumble of what was organized suit case. I thought I lost the point and shoot, found it. Yesterday before we left for the day, I made sure everything of "interest" was hidden in a zipped suit case or locked in the safe. As I was heading out, I see my gallon bag of meds with all prescription meds... including my life saving important DIOVAN HCT a three months worth in the labeled bottles .... in the bathroom with my overnight make up bag... at first I thought it was okay to leave in bathroom thinking the cleaning staff was so nice... hey they are Chinese... everything in China is wonderful. this is where my wonderful Tate is.... but for some reason I had second thoughts and hid the bag well into the recesses of my suit case. After a full day of touring, I am back in the room and getting ready for bed looking forward to another amazing day of touring. I look where I remember see the meds, they are gone! I searched everywhere... no bag of meds to be found. I am now concerned that the added stress of travel and meeting Tate would elevate my unmediated blood pressure. After a restless night of trying to figure out how I would handle these missing meds, I decided to delve deep into the bags. There it was in all it's safeness of unforgotten caution.... What a relief and a blood pressure deflation.
Tourist pictures of China...... soon it will be nothing but Tate and China.
FORGOTTEN CITY

I AM FASCINATED BY THE BEAUTY IN DETAIL
Me and Mom at the Birds Nest.... I am melting because of the heat!

Friday, May 22, 2009

Beijing Day ONE!

Feelings of combinations of being in awe and pure exhaustion. I am beyond words.
What a breeze the health check and custom was... really only people in masks coming in with a temperature gun checking for abnormal fevers.... QUICK, EFFICIENT, PAINLESS! I tried to take a picture of the masked temperature takers but was told "No picture!". It was like.... In, aim and onto the next passenger. For those traveling, no worries!
You never experience a true Chinese food orgy until you let a native do the ordering while keeping an open taste bud! Hot Pot last night and tonight??? Dish after delicious dish! I am so fortunate to have an amazing friend who has been living here in Beijing for the past few years.... She has two beautiful, intelligent Chinese daughters that just wet my appetite for Tate.
Today was a day of hanging around, relaxing and meeting some of our travel families! A recommendation for those who are yet to travel? Hire a taxi and have them head from your hotel to the BeiHai Park. Oh the places you will see! Ignore the crazy driving and look at the buildings with juxtaposition of high tech glass buildingsstanding watch over title alleyways of the hutang neighborhoods. Climb that hill of steps and gaze at the sprawling landscape that is Beijing.
Tomorrow we start the group tour of Forbidden City, Tienanmen Square, Summer Palace and the Beijing acrobats.
A few firsts for me today....
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I cannot get into blogspot so someone else is posting.... sorry not pictures.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

One Step Closer!

We got first class from SLC to Houston, first from Newark to Beijing... no real sleep until tonight... I am okay with this jet lag right now.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

SHE'S OFF....

and running!!!! We left for NY (Newark) on Tuesday.... this is the group who saw us off at the airport. My traveling posse and cast of characters would be brother, John (starting from far right to left), SIL and fellow Paris traveling companion, Michelle, then me, and beautiful Mom , Sunny, and Tate's middle namesake. I am pretty proud at how well we packed for this trip!!!


My fun loving 79 year old dad or Gramps, will be holding down the fort with two VERY busy TEENS and one tween.... Smiley, Twinkle Toes and Sparkle. Smiley has the most important task to get Tate's car seat put in correctly and have it checked out by the fire station.

Just a quickie while I wait for my first class seat from NY to Beijing!!!

Next will be from CHINA!!!!

Monday, May 18, 2009

IN JUST A MERE

18 hours I will be sitting on a plane starting the long flight to China.

Here is the sketchy itinerary..... I am hoping when we actually get to China we will have more definite plans....


  • May 19 1100 leave SLC with overnight in Newark (NYC)
  • May 20 12:10pm leave Newark non-stop to Beijing.... hoping for first class.
  • May 21 arrive Beijing at 1:50pm China time!!! We will rest up, tour and do whatever while we wait for the other families taking the Beijing tour.
  • May 23-25... Great Wall, Forbidden City, etc in Beijing.
  • May 25 leave for Nanchang, Jiangxi. Meet babies (??? when)!!!
  • May 26,27,28,29.... legal stuff paperwork.... KISSING MY TATE!
  • May 30 Orphanage visit (??!!)... the most important place to see for me.
  • May 31 possible flying for day trip only to Xi'an to see the Terracotta Warriors. Dragon Boat Festival.
  • June 1 obtain legal documents
  • June 2 fly to Guangzhou
  • June 3 Medicals
  • June 4 Consulate appointment at 9:30
  • June 5 wait for VISA for Tate.
  • June 6 take the train from Guangzhou to Hong Kong***.
  • June 7-8 tour Hong Kong
  • June 8 fly home from Hong Kong to Newark..... arrive super late on the evening of June 8th.

***The Hong Kong trip is something that may change based on Tate's needs and how tired we are of hotel rooms and eating at restaurants. I just may hang at the hotel and love on my gal. Much more amazing I am sure than Hong Kong.

I have still yet to pack. In my usual travel fashion, I make sure everything is freshly laundered and just pack quickly.

I will blog while in China. I know you all are here to see the Tantalizing Tate.... so if you want pictures of China, you will have to go else where for that. I will take tons of pictures of China, don't get me wrong, only will post people pictures here.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

SENTIMENTAL FOOL

Yes, that would be me..... I will be the momma that will have boxes of special memories and projects made by Tate. I will be the dreaded momma you will want to run from screaming when you see me approach, You know the kind of momma that has a ton of pictures she MUST show of her amazing unique one of a kind child.

In honor of my referral for Tate, I have purchased and framed this picture. This is the picture on the wall of her kingdom. It is a numbered and signed Mary Engelbreit print. Something I wanted to provide as a memory for both Tate and me.



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On the back I have added her referral picture and the reason for the print.

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I did the same thing when I became DTC/LID for my girl back in March 7 2006. That time it was a print done by a adoptive momma of her China love.

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Also an inscription on the back commemorating this special moment.

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TWO MORE SLEEPS!!!

Friday, May 15, 2009

I SHOULD HAVE BEEN BORN RICH......

Today I started my FML.... or maternity leave. I am feeling a little uncertain about all this. With each step TAKEN out of the building towards my car I felt like I was walking away from my life raft. It is scary to think that for 90+ days I will try to make it financially on the four weeks of vacation and the measly savings I have gathered along this wait. I hate being frugal. I think I should have been born rich.

Happily, I can say, 4 more sleeps!!!!

Thursday, May 14, 2009

SPEED UP!!!

Oh what a difference a day makes! Wake-up call from Kris.... (Hi Kris) with news that if we want to do the Beijing tour we needed to be in Beijing on MAY 22!!!

LEAVING IN 5 DAYS!!

Tentative plans...

  • May 19 (Tuesday) leave SLC to NYC (sleep over at airport)
  • May20 leave 1210pm NYC arrive Beijing at 150pm China time.
  • Since I work for the airline, I am hoping to get in first class to China.
  • As mentioned before, I get to fly for free so this is why we are traveling West to East.
  • We will arrive one day early so we can "rest-up" for starting the event that will change my life forever!
  • May 22-24th tour Beijing.
  • May 24 (Sunday) leave Beijing for Nanchang, Jiangxi.
  • In my secret dream of dreams, I hope the babies are waiting for us!
  • Hang out in Nanchang, fly to GZ.
  • June 6 take the train to Hong Kong.
  • Check out Hong Kong for a few days,
  • June 8 1020am leave Hong Kong for NYC
  • FLY FLY FLY FLY... should be home at 1124pm SLC time.

I am sure I will regret stopping in Hong Kong and taking the long way home thru NYC, but hey, I'm a gal after travel and adventure. Oh how I hope Tate will be too!

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

TENTATIVE TRAVEL DATES!!!!

I might be premature about posting this but...

I need to be in China May 24!!! That would be 11 days from today!!!


I am not sure if this means we need to be in Nanchang for the babies, or if this means we get to Beijing for the the tour. Since not everyone is doing the Beijing tour in our travel group and since May 24th is a Sunday with the whole week stretched in front of us for the Provence process, I am thinking that this is the day we need to be in Nanchang.


Travel will be from May 24-- ending June 4!!!


Wow, I cannot focus on anything right now!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

WE HAVE TA!!!!

Now just waiting to hear when we travel. I am being hopeful the Jiangxi Provincial appointment is given without a hiccup.

Update on the FLIP or NO FLIP.....

I have an amazing Canon Rebel camera (thanks Ginny). I also have a digi camera that I forgot will do video as well. My brother who is traveling with me will bring his video camera for the gotcha, etc. When I get home, I will buy a good hand held video camera as well as the FLIP. I really want quality and zoom capacity, but would love the convenience of the FLIP.

I am off to buy passeys, nipples, swimmer and overnight diapers. What is it that shouts out BABY when you buy these things? I read on the nipple package that I need to "boil nipples for 5 minutes". Better get that done while I have time.

I am finally starting to pack stuff for Tate. I have bought the medicine and set out the clothes and the few toys I plan on bringing. With the hopes of her still having that mass of hair, I am making bows to match outfits. I did buy a special dress for her to wear for her official China appointment and the US Consulate appointment.

Next step dates of travel!

Monday, May 11, 2009

FLIP OR NOT TO FLIP



I'm perplexed, in quandary, so very confused. It seems like the blog world is big into the FLIP video camera. I am wondering if this is just a passing trendy gadget or is it in for the long haul? This will be a major purchase. I hope to be able to use this video camera way into the future. I am not a gal who has to have the latest, most up to date gadgets. Already you can buy the regular FLIP and FLIP HD. Technology moves much too fast. At first, I was going to jump right on the bandwagon and buy that FLIP. Now I am thinking of buying a small handheld video with ZOOM.


Before I dump a few yuan on the counter for that video camera for China, I want your advise. What would you do?

Thursday, May 07, 2009

WAITING FOR THE TA

Still no real word on the TA....

a few inklings that we will know within a week or so, but nothing concrete. There is comfort in knowing other agencies and families are getting TA's. This media caused Swine flu pandemic did not affect the TA's.

If indeed it affected referrals, I am heartbroken for those next up waiting March families. I have no pathetic words like "you will forget the pain when you see your child's face" or "if not for this long wait, you would not be given the child you were mean to have"... these words are not comfort for those who wait.

All I can offer is a {{{HUGE HUG}}} with understanding and hope.

Thursday, April 30, 2009

PICTURE UPDATES!!!!!!

What a difference a day makes!!! This is what greeting me on my email today. Ann from Red Threads is truly a heaven sent.....

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Do ya just love the stylin' hair do???

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

I REALLY MUST SAY,

the hardest part of this wait for Tate is right now.

If you would have asked me one month ago what was the hardest thing I have done during this adoption, I would say without a doubt not knowing who she was. Where she was living, age, face.

Now I have a face to put on this wait. I examine the four pictures that are my treasure ... pictures of TATE'S FACE that shows me her sweet lips, the indention just under the nose. I see that little bud on the middle of her top lip. The sweet little bud that is so prevalent in newborns. I see the ever so slight droop on the top of her ears. The ears that I am dying to see. A mess of coal black hair.

I want to breathe in my baby, to nibble, snuggle, and adore.

Still so many questions.... All my information is from four months ago. How much has she grown and changed? Does she still have that brightness in her smiling eyes or has life in an orphanage changed that? Is she getting enough to eat? Tender loving care?

Word on the mean streets of IA (International Adoption) is that this Swine Flu scare will most likely put a 20-30 day or so stop to the TA (Travel Approval) for Tate. I had hoped to be traveling mid May. Not sure when I will be traveling.

Prayers to the heavens will be going out from many homes worldwide.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

FINALLY TRANSLATED.....

Tate's history.

A few highlights about my gal. These are actual quotes from the translation.
  • We named her Yuzhu (Tate's Chinese name) means a beautiful plant, hoping the baby will become a pretty girl when she grows up.
  • At the beginning when she arrived, the little baby appeared to have a very calm demeanor. She didn’t cry much nor was she grouchy. (cute to use the word grouchy).
  • She would smile and make some harmonic noises when you played with her.
  • She would act dancing-like when she was happy.
  • She would make laughter sounds when she saw people she was familiar with.
  • Little Yuzhu’s body is quite strong. She is rarely sick.
  • Let’s wish our baby a very happy and healthy growth.

Now when I gaze at the pictures of my gal, I can imagine her fun personality. She really is a great fit with our dancing-when-happy family that she will be joining. I am waiting to hear from Ann at Red Thread to get confirmation on Tate Yuzhu's care package being delivered and especially hoping that the updates will also include pictures of my girl.

Friday, April 24, 2009

TATE'S KINGDOM...

Where Tate will lay her wee sweet head at night and play her days away... this room and in the rest of the Manor in Tateland.



This chair is the inspiration that started the decorating direction of the Kingdom. I wanted something comfy and bright.

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Crib is from a yard sale. I did buy a new mattress. The crib has a drawer under mattress. It will turn into a toddler bed. I am not planning on using the toddler bed option. When Tate is old enough for her big girl bed, I want a size I can climb in and read and snuggle with her. The bedding from Pottery Barn Kids (off of Ebay). I plan on buying some peasant prints in China or put up her name... something I made at the beginning of this wait for Tate.

CRIB BEDDING AND ANIMALS
This is what is in Tate's bed right now. I am sure most of the animals will be replaced with a real live sweet baby Tate. The sock monkey is something that my mom gave to me a long time ago. I think I was in middle school.


VIEW OF WALL AND CHANGING DRESSER

Another yard sale find.... Several coats of white paint and new handles and knobs, I have a changing table. I did spend more money on the three blue flowered knobs than I did on the cost of the dresser. After putting things in the drawers, I have decided to buy a regular dresser. Not planning on using this for changing.
BASKET FOR BABY SUPPLIES

Close-up of basket with basket line made by me.....

SAYING ON WALL
Saying on the wall...

WINDOW PADDED VALANCE AND TIE BACKS WITH ART WORK HANGER UNDER NOTICE THE LADY BUG NIGHT LITE

This is the nine foot valance. I made this. Originally I planned to do a white wooden one with scallops. Instead decided to do something a little easier.... COUGH COUGH, the valance was a NIGHTMARE. Mostly because it is NINE FEET LONG. I did learn a lot of what to do if in a fit of insanity, decide to make another one at another time. Probably when H*ll freezes over.
CLOSE- UP OF ART WORK HANGER

Close up of the art hanger for the masterpieces made by Tate. As y'all know, I thought for sure Tate would be a toddler 18-24 months old. With this in mind, I put this up to hang all the artwork from pre-school.

SHELF WITH STUFF
An old china hutch that I restored for Tate's room. The buffet from this dining room set is painted black with pewter knobs and is hanging out in the dining room.

GROWTH CHART FROM LAND OF NOD
The side of the cabinet and what you see from the door way entering the kingdom. This is a growth chart that I bought from the Land of Nod. I love the whimsical feel of stuff from the Land of Nod.
CLOSE UP OF GROWTH CHART
Close up of the chart. The chart has butterfly, bug and flower stickers with birthdays on them. I always loved the idea of a growth chart for a child. Amazing how quickly kids grown and change.



CORNER WITH ROCKING HORSE
At Christmas time I bought a kitchen set for Tate. After seeing it in person, I took it back. In my mind I have an exact thing I wanted for her. So glad I can buy this when Tate will be older and appreciate it so much more. Instead, I bought the rocking horse. This horse kind of freaks Mesa out... especially when it makes sounds and moves.

CLOSET WITH ONLY SMALLEST CLOTHES IN IT

Closet in the Kingdom. This is the one in the room. Downstairs there is a room with another closet and bins full of larger sizes. Did I mention I thought Tate would be older, thus larger sizes. I have received gifts of adorable smaller sizes. Tate will not be naked. She does have more clothes but not hung.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

BEST SECRET PAL...

EVER!!!!!!!!



Kim Kramer was my secret pal in the March LID group. I remember how I almost did not join the March group because I KNEW my LID was wrong. On a whim I joined the group and jumped right on board with the Secret Pal fun.



Each and every month would arrive the cutest packages revealing inside fun, thoughtful and generous gifts. The first month I sent off my gift I thought, "Okay I did good", UNTIL I received my secret pal gift. I was blown away! So taking an example of this, I tried and I say tried to emulate the amazinginess of the packaging and the gifts I was receiving. People like family and friends, were amazed at such cuteness. My mom would drive 30 miles from her home to mine just to see the details in the packaging and gifts. After 12 months (or so) we revealed ourselves. I had grown to know and love Kim through her blog and comments on mine and other blogs. Of course, since she was my secret pal, I was so into everything I could gleam about her. In that fun December month was the big reveal. I let KIM KRAMER know that I was her secret pal and she, well ,SHE WAS MY secret pal!



The gift thoughtfulness did not stop there.... On my 5oth (yes, my fifty-th) birthday she once again blew me away.



Mesa was never forgotten in these packages either. Always Treats and Toys.... It almost got to a point that any package that came to the door she KNEW there was something for her.



Now that we see the sweet face of Tate, once again we were blessed with the love and generosity of Kim and Mike Kramer.





I talked about the cute packaging.... Here is a prime example to which I do speak. As you can see, these are silver matching bracelets. One for MOM and one for Tate. The bracelets came in these take out containers.... Mesa's came in her own doggie bag.

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And mine. Matching momma and Tate bracelets.... I am wearing mine already. Sorry, cannot wait for Tate. She will be wearing hers ASAP.


Take a look at this outfit! Could you just die over the cuteness of this? I can see those sweet little soft baby shoulders and legs peeking out of this dress. I can imagine that beautiful face of my Tate under the hat. SO so so so CUTE!


Now Mesa, she is nothing but trouble with her gifts. Somehow she thinks that since she has these two cool new balls, well, she needs me to play with her and these balls NON-STOP. She has been enticing me with the shear fun-ness of these balls by dropping them right in my path, tripping me and causing some pretty naughty Utah swear words.
Oh Kim, you never seize to touch me with your sweetness and thoughtfulness! You and I are sharing Tate until you see the beautiful face of Emma.

MY GIRL....

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(picture from referral package--about 4 mos old)


Just a little something about my girl....





On Decemeber 26 2008.... and in the referral.....



  • weighed on 6.5 kg or 14.3 lbs and height 60 cm or 23 3/4 inches

  • deep sleeper

  • she is active and restless

  • likes music

  • like playing games and with toys

  • has a ready smile (evident in above picture)

  • reported to have "sensitive skin".... cries when feather or hair touches it

  • will cry at strangers. (I think this means that she has had someone she has bonded to and has stranger anxiety)

  • is closest to caregiver


UPDATED TODAY




  • 7.5 kg or 16.5 lbs and height 71 cm or 28 inches

  • now she can sit up by herself

  • starting to talk!

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

CARE PACKAGE

Today I ordered Tate's care package through Red Thread China. I have heard such amazing things about Ann from Red Thread and the services that are given.

After reading and hearing from the Poyang SWI group, I decided NOT to send something personal from me. I wanted Tate to get her stuff as soon as possible. I also wanted this package to be delivered right into the hands of the SWI staff. Selfishly, I loved the possibility that I just might get pictures and the assurance of update information. I did order the PJ package and added additional treats and tea. I requested in my letter that the SWI keep all stuff for the other children except for the camera. That camera will be priceless to me.

This feeling of actually actively do something for my gal is empowering.

I have so much catch-up to do with this blog.... all about Tate, nursery, referral day activities, and the gifts from the most amazing SECRET PAL ever!!! Kim, I just LOVED your gift!

Monday, April 20, 2009

COUCH POTATO

I have been stretched on my couch with the laptop balanced, oh so wobbly, for hours and hours. EACH.AND.EVERY.NIGHT.I am searching for any information that would fill this huge void I feel because of the lack of information for my Tate. Somewhere I am hoping there is a family who traveled to PoYang (August 08-recent) and might have some pictures of Tate... AKA Bo YuZhu.

If I could tear myself away from this laptop, I just might head to the store for some ice cream. Funny thing is, I am not that big a fan of ice cream. Instead I am on the Internet searching so much that my hand is tingly and numb.

I did have a not so slight meltdown this afternoon. I am a bundle of emotions. So tired and overwhelmed.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

BULLETING IT OUT...

So much happenin'

  • Miracles really do happen....My agency is actually trying to get updates on the size of Tate. Sounds like I should be able to find this information, just "iffy" on the pictures. I can live with that.
  • I have a suspicious patch of possible skin cancer just above my eyebrow on the left side. Oh glory, can only imagine I will have a huge scab for all the gotcha/ metcha day pictures. Not worried about the skin cancer patch, I have had one once before and my mom has had several of them.
  • I am in the middle of a root canal re-do. Should get my final treatment on May 10.
  • Happily got word that possible travel will be between May 10th thru 20th. This could be in less than one month. I better reschedule that final root canal appointment.
  • Tate's paperwork is being re-interpreted. I feel guarded about falling in love with all the cute stuff she is reported to be doing.... "sucking on fingers, rolling over". Just protecting my tender heart on this one.
  • Really wondering if I am doing something wrong with the required paperwork that I should be taking to China. There seems to be a lot of chatter on what a pain it is, so far it has been just copying stuff that is easily available in files. When stuff like that happens, I start to worry I am missing something.
  • The nursery still is no done. Not sure if I will have it completed before Tate takes off to Harvard.
  • One of the favorites purchase so far was buying my first box of diapers... I am opting for size 3. Figure if she is smaller than the 16lbs, she will quickly grow into them. I know this excitement will pass when buying diapers is a common purchase around this place.
  • Have not even started the packing process. I did buy some infant Tylenol and Motrin though.

Time is running away at record speed. If time continues to run at this pace, I should be hopping a plane to China.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

MISSING THE BOAT.....

At least that is how I am starting to feel. While all other bloggers are sending care packages, getting updates on their new daughters, I am still waiting for my referral documents to be translated. Yes.... after many calls to my agency, I finally did get emailed the documents. No FedEx moment for the life book. Funny (actually not so funny) thing is, in the initial information Tate's birthday is August 13. In the translated stuff, it gives her birthday as August 1. Another discrepancy is the name. In her initial information her name is Bo Yuzhu.. in the translated documents there is another name. I am assuming there was a mix up among the ten documents that was translated at the same time. I can handle this, but when I ask the agency about this, I get Nada. I asked about sending a care package and was told I cannot send a package. When I asked if we can request updates on size and weight and hopefully pictures, another NO. So do I send a care package with both names on the stuff??? Once I establish her name she is know by in the SWI, do I pay a service for update information?

What this all means to me is.. total frustration. This is the time I should be blissfully working on getting things together for this monumental life changing time of my life.

I am blissfully happy with gazing at my gal, though.

TATE'S A WINNER.....

Of Alyzabeth An's half birthday favorite things give away. From the beginning I have followed the journey to and the last 6 months of Alyzabeth An being home with her forever family. What a beautiful and delightful gal.....

How fun to have a family tradition of giving away something on her half birthday. I am always looking to add to our family traditions, so this just might make the new family tradition list.



These are the things that I received for Tate from Alyzabeth An. Fun thing, the day after I gazed on Tate's face, I received this package in the mail..... I could not believe that I had a face that I could imagine using all these cute Toddler stuff.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

SPINNING...

She is a YOUNG ONE.





I am just trying to come down to earth on this whole momma gig. Both mentally and around the Kingdom, I have been preparing for at least an 18 month toddler. The last few months I just KNEW that Tate was a three year old. Yes, oh YES, this age thing has totally rocked my world. I now have a whole new set of things to think about. Formula, bottles. rear facing car seat, toys, clothes, schedules, day care..... I am lovin' the idea that I will be there for so many of her FIRSTS. Including her FIRST BIRTHDAY!!! Oh yeah, I am sure my gal loves a party as much as I do.

Tuesday, April 07, 2009

HERE SHE IS...

In all her Tate-r-licious-ness....

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She's grinning with anticipation of joining in on all the fun of her new FAMILY!!!
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Monday, April 06, 2009

TANTALIZING TATE

Just a quick note....

Introducing....

Bo Yu ZHU (sp???)

To be know as Tate Solfrid (Chinese name) (Our last name)



She is living in the PoYang SWI in the Jiangxi Provence.

She was born on August 13 2008.... Almost 8 months old!

Can hardly breathe.


I will have the actual pictures tomorrow but have a fax copy of 4 grinning lots of hair photos!!!


More details to follow.....

Friday, April 03, 2009

THE STORK HAS LANDED.......


I got up early to check if there was any news on RQ... NADA, so I went back to bed. What a difference a few more hours make in this wild ride of IA. People are getting calls!!!


Thankfully my agency directors should be back in town today. Unfortunately, they will not get the package for a few more days.....


  • DHL does not deliver to their area.

  • DHL will deliver to Las Vegas.

  • Someone in LV will put the referrals into a certified package and MAIL vis US Postal.

  • Once it is delivered, THEN I WILL GET THE CALL!!!

I am not expecting the call until MONDAY. I will try to relax and enjoy all the cute babies of others.


So my next post will be TATE!!!!

Wednesday, April 01, 2009

SHEEEEESH


ENOUGH already..... Bring on the referrals, please?