MY TATE

First some pictures of my girl, then a little update on her milestones and her life.....

• Tate is 20.6 lbs and 29.5 inches. She no longer is on formula and HATES baby food. She will gum most anything and prefers ME to feed her. In daycare she like to feed herself.
• When I first met Tate in China she could barely sit up without toppling over. She also would not roll from front to back, etc. She was strong, but not too motivated to move around. I will say that the amount of people loving on her did not help this. We wanted to carry her and love on her. Fast forward to the month of August. Tate is now a one year old and hanging out with a 2 1/2 yr old girl and a 19 month old boy while momma is at work. Amazing what a little peer pressure will do for a girl.
• We have a crawler!!! For the first few weeks, she would do this crawl on one knee and sit-scoot on the other knee action. Real cute but not too affective for getting around quickly. I totally missed out of getting a video of this. SUDDENLY she now has learned to do the traditional crawl AND FAST.
• Not too sure how long this crawling gig will last. Tate is pulling up on things. At nap time I am greeted with a STANDING SMILING girl! She is trying to figure out the footing and pull coordination for pulling up on random things like chairs, coffee table and couch.
• Mesa is also an item pulled up on. Mesa is not too sure on how she feels about this one and has started to move out of the way when Tate-the-Terror comes crawling her way.
• Walking is a big motivator for Tate. She LOVES when she can get someone to hold her two sweet hands and let her walk. What used to be tiny close together steps are now strides with purposeful movement.
• She has caused some frustration on her walking helpers by her choice to STOP the walking action for a little dancing in place action. Tate is still a crazy dancer. She will move to the music she hears or just stop and dances.
• Tate's life is full of older kids... walking fun older kids and Tate wants to be part of their play. You can see the envy on her face when she see the fun. I am sure I will have a walker in no time.
• Language and sounds are exploding around here. Tate will try the first sound of words like..... PPPPPP when I say pretty. SSSSSSSSSSS when she hears anything that starts with a S. She is practicing with the back of her throat.... Sucking in air and growling. I hear her practicing all the time from her crib and car seat. My girl likes to perfect her sounds before she showcases it to the world.
• Not sure I like the discovery of the tongue which sticks out a lot. I know the four new top teeth coming in needs exploring and is helping this tongue involvement.
• Teeth are popping out on top. She is getting four at one time. Even with her teething discomfort, Tate is still a HAPPY baby.
• Since being in daycare, Tate is much more snugly with me. She will sometimes wake in the wee hours of the morning just to snuggle for a few minutes and then back to sleep. I am sure she is loving her time in daycare, but still misses me. I am so glad she is having a tearless time in daycare but wants her momma too.

This is the way I have baby proofed this sudden quick crawling baby. While she naps today, I will be moving stuff and making it baby friendly.

MORE FIRST BIRTHDAY PICTURES....

Cannot get enough of some sweet momma Tate snuggles....



PRESENTS...

BIRTHDAY TIGER HAT

Somewhere along my long journey of adoption, I heard that it was a tradition for a Chinese child to wear a tiger hat on their first birthday.... I just might be way off on this tradition, but for me, I had to do it for Tate's first birthday....





Not liking to wear her FIRST birthday fancy hat.....

CAKE ATTACK!!!

First birthday cake....


Ahhhhh.... she is such a delicate picker....






Tate found the plate "bothersome" and ditched it pretty quickly....












This was such a FUN time watching Tate and her first birthday cake............

JUST PICTURES...

I have been shooting Tate with my purse size point and shoot since I first met her. I have noticed lately MOST of my shots have been out of focus. I am thinking it is because Tate is always in motion.... I am now shooting with my Canon Rebel... it seems to catch the action much better.

My life has been more than HECTIC the last two weeks.... Because of family members being on vacation, we postponed Tate's 1st birthday to Monday August 17 (hey, she doesn't know the difference!).... I cannot wait to see Tate attack her cake with all her Tate-exuberance. She is such a delightful personality!


I love Tate's hair like this... ahhhhh, the bedhead!!!

This is the face that greets me when I walk into the room....


JUMPING.....


The landing.

CLOSE-UPS....






It has been cold around here lately.... I have the hardest time keeping socks on Tate's feet. She seems to think that toes should be bare. Even if they are frozen toes.... I was able to sneak these piggie slippers on her feet while she was "jumping". The minute she was out of her jumper, she had those piggies OFF.



How cute are these piggie slippers on my girl???

THE EVE OF TATE'S BIRTH...

Tonight as Tate lays her head down to sleep, on the other side of the world Tate's birth mother awakes. To me, Tate's momma, this is the night before my baby's first birthday. To Tate's China momma, it is the last day she felt the sweetness of our baby. I will never know the circumstances that surrounded Tate abandonment. With a heavy heart for China momma's loss, I feel the JOY of being blessed to be Tate's momma.

SLEEP SOUNDLY SWEET TATE... tomorrow when you awake, you will be ONE!!!

HAPPY TO REPORT...

Tate and I both survived our first day away from each other. Tate knew something was up this morning when I got her ready and out the door way earlier than her normal. She happily went to Lindsay but turned and wanted me back. I told Lindsay I did not know what to do. Her good advice, "Hug her and leave".... So I did.

Tate did as well as expected. Cried for 10 minutes before her first nap, wanted to feed herself (she prefers me to feed her) but LOVED having the other kids to watch and learn from. I swear she seems older after eight hours!

ME??? I could not stop thinking of her. My arms craved her. Her sweet little smile just lite up when she saw me. My heart skipped a beat and then it BURST. I swear, I kissed her so many times her cheeks are now chapped.... Dang it if she is napping now .... I'm hoping this will be a quick nap!

Job??? I will be teaching special education part-time in an elementary school. Exciting and scary change, but such an amazing job when you are a single momma.

GAG....

Tomorrow starts the beginning of a whole new chapter in Tate and my life together. I am starting a new job and she is starting in daycare. I will talk about the new job later in the week. Tate will be staying this Monday and Thursday for 8 hrs while I am in a workshop, with her buddy and our neighbor Lindsay and Gwennie (2.5 yrs old) Lindsay will be having a little boy in November. I just feel that this is the best situation for my sweet active girl. Tate has been hanging out with momma, Lindsay and Gwennie all summer long. Hopefully there will not be any tears on her part. Me???? Most definitely tears!

MOBILITY AND OTHER MOVING ISSUES......

Stuff with Tate are exploding around here....

• Tate has always been a busy girl. Always observant, always wiggling. Lately, her wiggling has met purpose. She is still not crawling, but will sit on her toosh and scoot from place to place.
• Tomorrow I have an appointment to her Tate to be assessed by Early Childhood Intervention. I am sure they will give me some pointers on how to get my gal crawling and walking.
• In her bed she is one wild sleeper. In the past, she would sleep on her back and her left side. Now I will find her on her tummy on the opposite side of her bed. She seems to prefer sleeping on her tummy.
• We are big into the "OH OH" drop game. She will say "OH OH" when she is ready to drop food in her high chair. Mesa loves this kind of "OH OH" game. Me?? Not liking it to much when I am trying to drive and have a sweet baby dropping toys.
• Tate has always been real social. In church the other day, she saw her friends Tiffany, Liza and Sollie. She flapped her arms saying hi so hard it looked like she was about to take flight.
• Tate is into smacking lip kissing. She will give momma a kiss when requested. Sometimes the smacking happens after contact and I get an open slobber mouth, but all kisses are cherished my me.
• We have an activity center that Tate's Fairy Godmother gave her. It is full of fun things and a musical keyboard for playing. It is also a bouncy thingy. In the past, Tate has loved the musical component on this center. Today, she could not get enough of some WILD jumping.
• I really think it is just a matter of weeks before she is crawling all over the house.

PONY TAILS WITH ATTITUDE....

What the heck are these???


Okay, momma, I won't touch....


I know, I know I am tooooo cute!

DISCIPLINING MESA.....

"NO MESA, no more food!!! Now leave me alone!"

"momma, I took care of the Mesa food mooch problem"

"I am talking nicely to Mesa. Momma, this is not fair!"

"How 'bout I try charming you instead?"

TATE TODAY....

BULLET TIME....

• My girl is teething... at least she is acting like it. She is eleven months old and only two little teeth on the bottom. For weeks now I have been waiting for some pearly whites to erupt from her swollen top gums... All evidence is pointing to this happening. WHERE ARE THOSE TEETH???
• Tate is learning where her nose is.... and where Momma's nose is. I usually do this during face to face in the high chair feeding time. This is kind of how this time plays out. "Where is Tate's nose?" she points with with such concentration with her sweet finger. Then I ask "where is Momma's nose?" and lean in for her to touch my nose. After a few times of this I end up kissing her. Funny thing, now she thinks that a kiss is in order each time I ask where our noses are.
• I have started to say NO to my girl. She hears nose instead of NO and will point to her nose with a big smile. How can I say NO to such a cute sweetie?
• Tate is sharing.... she will play with something and then hand it to me so I can have some fun. Back and forth this will go. She does this with food offerings to Mesa or me. Sometimes she shares something right out of her mouth. Me??? I decline this offering. Mesa??? Takes it with gusto.
• She has gained in five weeks 1/2 inch and almost a pound.
• Sadly, she has started her vaccinations. She had four, two in each thigh. Man did she cry so hard. There was only one nurse doing all four. Next time I will DEMAND there be at least two nurses both shooting at the same time.... QUICKLY.
• Man of man, I love it when she reaches her arms out for me.
• Tate's MD gave her the go ahead to eat whatever she can gum. New taste for Tate this week is small tastes of refried beans, guacamole and soft tortillas (Mexican food at party), tiny piece of raw broccoli, tastes of ice cream, string cheese. "People" (who will be nameless) gave her a small taste of chocolate. Funny thing, why I say "PEOPLE" is because I have been told by a few "people" that they have given her a tiny taste of chocolate. Keep in mind before flaming me, Tate comes from a long line of chocolate crazy family... who can blame them?
• Why do they have to make little girl clothes SOOOOOOOOOOO cute???

BONUS

FUN AT CHERRY HILL WITH FAMILY

Matching colors and chillin' with Twinkle Toes. Tate wants to know when she gets her own iPod.

Waving with Gramps as the family floats on by on the lazy river.

Sparkle and my Love

BUT WAIT, THERE'S MORE!!!

VIDEO FUN AT MEAL TIME....

TATE TEASING MESA....

AFTERMATH OF THE TEASE

INTRODUCING...

EMMA YU!!!! She is so beautiful.... such kissy lips... huge round eyes...breathtakingly BEAUTIFUL!!!

The most amazing secret pal in the world Kim and Mike had a real shocker today!!! They thought their LID was March 29... They hope to be traveling before Christmas.... Here is the most joyous shocker ever!!! Kim and Mike's LID was really March 21st!!! They got the call today... that special call they were expected to get in October....

Well Kim, you will be home and all settled in before Christmas... THIS WILL BE THE BEST HOLIDAY SEASON EVER!!!!!

I am so excited for these new parents I can hardly contain my joy.....

FAN CLUB...

For FOUR years my nieces and nephews have been waiting for Tate... she is so adored by all. What is SHOCKING is the way the "COOL" teenagers act around her. Just cracks me up!!!

This is the way most of our family gatherings look. Most of the time there are fights who gets to hold and play with Tate...

Even Gramps and the new puppy Jasmine can't seem to get enough of her....

Actually, I think the pup Jasmine is just waiting for food to fall. Mesa has clued her in on this one I am sure!

EXPLOSION

In these past three days, there has been an explosion of personality and physical skill in Tate! Where has my sweet funny easy going girl gone??? She has always been very active while awake. Nothing would get by her gaze. She would wiggle and kick her legs, but was content to watch. The sounds coming from her were sweet little coos, giggles and and babbles. She actually cried twice when Solomon (her 6 month old buddy) screamed and squealed. That was the old Tate.... new things are happening minute by minute here.

Tate rolled over next to Mesa, plopped her thumb in her mouth and snuggled...

• I have been concerned with the stiffness in Tate's legs and back. There was an effort on my part to get her to bend her legs for dressing and sitting. A wise momma (Hi Tiffany) showed me a few exercises to do with my girl. After a few days of doing this, Tate is like a noodle.... will practically do the Chinese (ha ha) splits while sitting, will roll around and scoot on her tush towards things. She does this with a HUGE SMILE ON HER FACE FOR HER MOMMA.



• Yesterday Tate demonstrated against being put in her car seat. She has been stiffening up so I cannot buckle her....



• Saying NO to her just makes her laugh.



• She is understanding so much language now!



• She now squeals... LOUDLY! She loves my reactions which will fuel even more happy LOUD sounds. I of course am fueled by her. This is one LOUD crazy time.



• Feeding her has become a challenge. She used to be soooo easy to spoon food into her mouth. Tate has always been discriminating with food and will eat only when hungry. Now she is TOOOOOO busy to eat. She will suck down 4 ounces of formula just to satisfy her hunger but will stop because Mesa has entered the room.



• She LOVES Mesa. Mesa LOVES her.



• I do notice at the end of her active day, she will be ready to suck down her bottle. At these times, she will eat about 10 ounces. She will be all snuggled in her PJ's, tummy full of warm formula and content in my arms. This is the time I love. She will look at me with such satisfaction with the sweetest smile on her face. TATE has a MOMMA!



• Oh man oh man, I love my girl.



• So far she only has her two bottom teeth. Still chewing on things, but have not seen the arrival of any more of her pearly whites.



• She loves music. If we are in the car, she makes this certain sound that means, "Hey momma, turn on the tunes, would ya please?" She loves Madonna's old stuff, HATES Cher.



• I've got a dancing fool on my hand. She loves it when I hold her and dance around the room. She will rock back and forth, moving her shoulders side by side if in her car seat or high chair.

EACH DAY IS A WHOLE NEW DAY WITH MY GIRL....

TANTALIZING TATE

These are just a few of my favorites so far of Tate....


This photo is similar to the photo shoot I had a week earlier. Although I love this one, my all time favorite picture of Tate in her TUTU is the one I posted for her 11 month old picture.


I won't use this for the large canvas, but I loved how funny her expression is here. She was so ready to "be done" with the shoot, but indulged the photographer for the shoots of the hats and the flowers. The photographer LOVED Tate and will be using some of her pictures in the future.


HATS......

ME AND MY GIRL

I received as a gift a full-on two hour photo shoot with me and my girl, Tate. I have never experienced such a session. Heck, I felt like one of those super models. You know "play with the baby" pose, pose, play. CLICK CLICK CLICK! The gift includes a 16x20 inch gallery wrapped canvas. After 240 pictures, I have to narrow it down. These are just a few of the ones of me and my girl.... Which one should I chose???

ELEVEN MONTHS OLD!!

I love this picture of Tate! I love that the reason for that gazing smile is she is smiling at me... I get butterflies in my stomach when I think of her. My heart skips a beat when I see her sweet being. She is beyond anything I have dreamt of. My heart is eleven months old today.

picture by Gale at piccadilly photo

FEW PICTURES ONLY

Running around having fun... Tate is one party animal!!! Just like her momma! We had a visit from Julie and Tess..... We all hung around with Tiffany, Eliza and Solomon. Laurel, Kenzie and Maylin.....


Tutu girls.... Tate and Tess



FEET in Laurel's stream... Tess, Tate, Kenzie, Maylin.



Three cute girls... Eliza, me and Tate.



More to follow when we can stop and post.